Monday, August 10, 2020

Rain

Rain or rainy season, when you or most of us hear always connect to deep feelings and relates it with intensity of love. Almost every youngster prospects rain as romance and feels every single drop in 16 frames (slow motion). People so lost in showering rains and remember there good times with love one or imagine time with them, actually it's their deepest desire to be with them when its rain.
I remember, during childhood,we use to make paper boats and try to float them in water, and enjoys. We dont even understand what is going to float and how boat is dissolving in water. Infact most of us didn't witnessed boats floating in real. It's an imaginary things which we saw during pre schools, those colorful boats and we just lost into it. Similarly, we had lots of visual memories thru movies that tells us rainy season is season of love and actually we started living those memories which is actually not in real world. Just because we had those visuals we try to live that imagination wheathervits in childhood or in young age may be it will happen in old age too.
But, when we realize what actually attracts in rain... does partner??? No.. because most of us didn't know who is our partner or will be partner. Then what really attracts?? Infact rains feels us cold,flu, gooze bumps , feels irritating and itching due to climate and just opposite to those practicality we lost into visual memories. Then why we attracted so much towards rain? My thinking is the summer we spent before those pleasant showers, those dry trees, extreme heat and when it rains climate become soothing, lush green and we actually enjoys those natural relaxing cool things after summer. Ofcourse in those part of world where summers are not intense and rains are prominent, there feelings may be different but at the same time they wont feel that much love due to climate effects. 
Practically speaking, rain has lot of positive vibrations that feels pleasant and is associated by us with our feelings. Ofcourse visual memories works  and unconsciously pushes us to live that moment. Rains cannot be blamed, its human emotions and desires. It is very true emotions or feelings do not change with weather. Only thing is how we react or respond.


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Human and society

Humans are the most intelligent creature of the planet and they are indulged with lots of different emotions. Intelligence and emotions are the deadly combination. Usually not a single person has extreme level intelligence and emotions. It is wise to have balance between both and that's how life goes on.
Society is the place where a human belongs to. A man or a woman has been a integral part of society.  Society may differ based on religion,  culture,  location etc but society plays a important role in humans life. The impact of society can be observed in nature and behavior of an human.
A man is seen by different perspective and woman is seen by different. That forces the inequality amongst the two genders but actually it's not about equality it's about the respect and responsibilities that a couple shared for an smooth life. Those responsibilities are labelled and that provokes some people to point out.
History says, man goes for earning and woman stays home to nurture lives at home. Lives may be children or parents or even those couples. That is a shared responsibility,  one person (may be male) may not do everything like earning,  nurturing,  take care of oldies or children's, manages home etc etc so they choose a partner which fulfill those incompleteness in the life. Well it can be vica versa and totally acceptable. But society labelled it as only man can go outside and woman can work at home. This goes for long time and gives rise to those who thinks they can fight for rights of a woman. It's totally agreed that practicing those social norms gives different perspectives for man and woman but as I already mentioned that was shared responsibility.
When we go back to our religion, we found Male god can do fights or they can plan something but still they do not neglect female god. Infact most of them evidant certain things can be done only by female god. Still they dont have ego issues. Most of females are worshipped more than males eg in hindu culture laxmi is worshipped more than vishnu but vishnu is considered as creator of this world. Even lord vishnu pays much respect to his wife. Even they are God they have shown responsibility and respect towards their family that may be the whole world. Lord shiva says "shakti me bina shiv adhure he" shakti means his wife. It doesn't mean lord cannot do things by his own, the statement itself says it's an respect towards female partner for completing a family despite having different identities, roles and responsibilities still having dependency in their independence.
God himself has set examples and if we follow a religion any of that may hindu, Christian, muslim etc there are enough evidence of equality. Example of mother mariam is there, Mohammad paogambar had spoken about respect towards females. Words and languages may differ but inspiration and meaning is same. It's not about one gender it's about human. Humans consists of all possible genders and their distinct places. If we leave religion behind and talk about science, then every humans have same body parts , same function and same capabilities of thinking. Its upto an individual what he thinks how he thinks and how well could apply to life. Religion teaches us the way in the form of spirituality,  science teaches us the influence in our behavior in the form of exploration and experiences. Its totally on human itself what he wants to exploit the loop wholes and gives birth to rebellions which takes advantage of some bad examples and hide good one to show a whole picture to the victim. Rebellions are also originated by humans only and may seen in different genders, not all are true , not all are good not all are bad. It can be observed by human himself with a conscious decision making and emotional stability. And these rebellions knows how to utilize those feelings and emotions and turns disbelief imbalance between intelligence and emotions. Once a balance is lost, human loses its integrity and pays in terms of social values. Few bad examples cannot lead an human life to a conclusion.