Sunday, August 8, 2021

Incoming v/s Outgoing

Sounds simple!
Connected with device or sim card... as simple as able to make calls, that is , outgoing and able to receive call that is incoming. But article isn't focused on simple sim cards or mobile phone. 

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Human being is worried mostly about outgoing, like problems are related to motion (loose motion or constipation), or problems related to emotions (mood swings or depression) or may be related to money (lavish life or poverty) etc etc etc. Actually we are focusing on what we dream, what we expect and what we think. But obvious what we get is a reflection of all these. Eventually, it's good to see what we are able to expend and upto an extent it's good to understand that we are able to make what we can. We should admire it. 
The plate we are getting is full of thoughts process we worked for. Have you think about the backend of all these???  I labeled as "incoming". 

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If we have a sim card, I think most important is calls coming from other end. It opens a gate for make calls at your end. Interestingly we are always after why we can't make an call?
If we eat, then only we get an loose motion or constipation. Ever you thought, if you don't eat you won't have these. Infact,  it's not like you eat rabbit and shit an tortoise, obviously it will be rabbit only. Jokes apart, what we eat will come out.
If you think, then only your mood changes if you don't, won't be an issues like depression.
Similarly,  what we earn, what we have in our bank and based on our priority we have an expense plans to be lavish. 
Deeply, we are not bothering about what we have as an input. Inputs has an huge impact and must be a quality raw material. Putting good kind of potatoes make potato chips not gold. We want a gold then dig out mines or work hard in Olympics.

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Giving something to someone is always precious but you can give only if you have. So focus on what you can earn or you have. So, what to do??? Focus focus focus only on inputs.
Think good, do good. Incoming is the important factor which can change your output i.e. workhard to receive a lot, earn and then do. 
Don't forget, outgoing stops first incoming lasts longer.

An...ant

Thursday, June 17, 2021

The viva "worse"

Hi! I am going to tell the spicy part of every student's life. To be specific, college student's life.
When we were in higher secondary school, we are sort of visualize the dreams and good saying in hindi "khuli aankho se sapne dekhna" and almost common dreams we had during those days. We gonna think we stepped into a college where there will be lots of fun, funky clothes, cool bikes, hot and sexy bunch of friends,some romance and these all in combination of being topper of class in academics. We continue to imagine these kind of dreams and forgetting about higher secondary examinations.

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Well, at about our time schools were about lots of studies and discipline. In early 2000's very very rare there was a love story born in small city schools and  had a set routine of school home, tuition and play. This was a era where having a cellphone is like you belongs to rich family and internet was limit to cyber cafes. Above all pressure from family society that in every job interview high school and higher secondary marksheet will be consider, if you dont score you can't do anything in life and so on...
So, as a typical college Bollywood story lines, we learnt and actually wants to live college life as seen in movies. Reality differs, and that's where we suffer. I am fortunate to have a admission in professional college and that too is medical college. College life is more serious than what we see in movies, our dreams was just a fantasy that we are visualized without knowing the reality. 
We just realized school life was better than college life atleast you have some people whom you can giggle, hangout or meet during outdoor play. Every friend has time for you and ofcourse we don't value our friends that time.

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So, I was in college and despite of being missing school days, somehow we accomodate and make friends and life moves on. Good thing is we are still focused on studies and in different clothes at different settings. One of the funniest part of our college life was actually related to studies that is going to point out. 
During admission we got a copy of university syllabus and usually every education program must have these kind of provisions that syllabus is divided into theory and practical examination. We have to score in both sections of each subject to clear professional year exams.
Initially every one was scared of university exams. See board exams (high school or higher secondary school) is what we faced in past but what is this new nomenclature we came across is university exams. Exams were conducted at some other college, practical exams at our own college but under supervision of external examiner, that is same as we faced in board exams but the twist is viva vorse is not limit to practical questions asked but is to entire syllabus and internal examiner is tougher than external examiner. Ofcourse he understands the build ups, flaws and positive negative aspect of every student.
Our batch had only 9 students and we have to cross viva exam in increasing number or decreasing number. Since majority times exams starts from first number, and till the end, examiner fed up of asking questions. 
We as a students, try to irritate our examiners at numerous times and unknowingly. Well, examiner must have vast experience of asking questions, he can predict instantly as soon as student arrives infront of him. And despite of this, we still want to make them fool, annoy and sometimes angry.

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It's my privilege to be the "opener" in my batch, and there wasn't any dimension set for a examiner. He tries and error by asking different questions to me. Actually, he tries to overview my knowledge as well as how depth my batch has learnt. So,its very clear for me that examiner will ask everything to me. On other hand my batchmate who has to face examiner at last, she was a theoretically sound student who studied every corner of the book. Unfortunately, she has last number and examiner crossed every student before her. That means, struggled to have answers from students,  annoyed by them etc etc.  The moment she enters unfortunately she victim of all the anger and frustration created by our own friends. Helplessly she can blame anyone because "har ek friend Kamina hota h" . Those friends are also give their 100% to annoy examiner, many of them knows understand the questions but they are stubborn enough not to answer in desired language of examiner. This small moment we enjoy everytime and even she smiles although had face serious panic situations. 

This is life, these incidences are still live to us and we giggle alot by remembering those in a group. By the time we realized that due course of responsibilities and so called growth these all little joyful moments were missed but subconscious mind provoke it again and again. I hope you can correlate these kind of incidents with your own experiences. Feel free to share with me 
email Id is : sharmaanant049@gmail.com
Ana...nt

Wednesday, May 26, 2021

The romance of a moon

Too far..... behind the tree...
Tree was lush green loaded with petals and providing necessary oxygen to us. Look at the broader picture. 
Tall tree on a breezy night seems like an handsome boy   moon spotting like an glowing beautiful girl. It mesmerizes the atmosphere and turned into a cool calm portrait, in which universe planned every single gesture into a entitled frame which expels out a different story.

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So, back to the scene...gradually moon comes closer to the tree. Now forget the science where moon revolves around the earth. Feel the atmosphere,  slowly slowly girl (moon) is walking towards a boy (tree). They want to spend some time together with no one else around. Look at the sky, perfect desires is fulfilled by stars (friends and families). No one is around.
what a nature what a glow and blissful to have such small things around us. Girl tries to say something quietly to the boy and his ears (those leaves on the top) is like blowned up. Seems like an different energy came through his ears and whole body felt that. Just like an common boy, a tree had a nasty stand in spicy summer where sun was like chewing all energy and at the end of the day a dull tree still standing tall tells that he required something unique which boost him like anything. That's where the relationship meant to be powerful, even a tired person feels energized when sees his/her mate. 
God has created things don't know with what kind of perception but he blessed humanity with thinking and has own perception. That perception meant alot. It solely describes whose gonna friend or stays in your life for a longer duration.  Despite of fact, everything is faded away at some point. 

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Just another tree, having same environment but here the old man stands, who spent his life in giving. He lost almost everything but still stand taller. Moon sparkles him too but not like an beautiful mate but may be as an medicinal effect like a daughter. That's gives him reason to stay tall. Every day after fighting with dust, sunshine etc even birds are not making homes at him still getting waits for a evening. May be like an old man waiting for his child somewhere at home or old age home.
He desperately wants to express himself when no one around him for the whole day. He keeps motivates himself and look when someone (moon) met him he is also revijunate and feels to start a fresh day that is tomorrow.
Same cool, breezy , calm moon fulfill his roles to different persons but never tired of meeting. She knows, she can make life beautiful.

Time to say thank to every moon to your life and moon should also be thankful to every standing tall tree. Give and take.


Pic courtesy: Kunal Thorat, Divya Malakar

An...ant

Tuesday, May 18, 2021

Realizing; the lessons from early college

I am not going to tell story of 3 musketeers or 3 idiots or any movie story. This was actually a personal experience of mine and is related to 3 persons. Well, I am not going to focus on me but on some one else. 

Myself has ended school board exams relatively at high note. So as an every individual does I was searching for a college by which I can continue my studies and turned into a career. So I got admission in a professional course. September 5th, on auspicious day "teacher's day" I was about to start my new journey. A fearful, alone and unknown to crowd, i was waiting for bus at a place where lots of other students (all having day one , in different speciality but in same college).  I took that bus with others and reached to orientation hall at college.
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Anyone from a middle class background has dream of a successful career and its first step is to get admission in professional stream is like larger than a life.
On other hand, the other two characters (including the main) belongs to same region of a city. Somehow they had an interaction and fortunately they are on the same boat, reached college (not venue) by scooter. The scooter was a famous scooter made by bajaj company and was pretty old, belongs to second lead of the story (I am the 3rd). So in search of orientation hall, they have landed to the most desirable area for boys unknowingly and that was the girls hostel. Watchman was in loo and they stepped into girls hostel. Before they could ask for orientation hall, they understood this is some wrong building we entered. It's better to run away rather than thrown out by warden or some officer. The beauty of our college was there are so many similar buildings that any one can be confused but these two were too much dumb that couldn't see main building infront and went to a building that was behind main building.
Some silly things brings lots of joy in the life and is remembered throughout life.
Since, I have started scary, lonely day at first few hours, they had already a funny friendship start that still in our mind. Eventually, they found orientation hall where everyone was giving basic introduction, background and course in which we took admission. Orientation was conducted by the dean and co and we almost 200 peoples were listening to everyone's introduction and try to find out our batchmates from same course. Here I saw those two one by one and who knows we were going to be friends.
Speaking infront of too much people need courage and was not practiced in schools at that time.
A chubby, short heighted boy from a south Indian background with lots of confidence to speak up and courage to face such audience... that boy was Sid. Coming from higher middle class background and reasonable good school of city with above average scoring in 12th standard he started his journey with us. His companion was resident at similar area and owned that scooter was BD. He was an experience companion as he was in some other college for a while and little bit aware of college situation. So as orientation finished, we found each other in same batch and met for the very first time during lunch. Well others too were part of our batch but fun begins with we 3 Sid, BD and Me.
We all knew we will have a good company for sure.
Fortunately we became friends. As usual friends do, we attend lectures , eat lunch and travel together by public transport. We shared a good bonding, as time progresses we are found to roam around in and out of campus. Sid was bit emotional and was a only child. Me and BD has siblings and knows how to be in same page as we are grown up in that environment plus Sid was relatively sound as far as financial status of our families. With different cultural,  financial and family backgrounds our friendship gradually grows. 
Sid has his own ways to enjoy and was more forward then us, having good general knowledge having access of computer internet freely. Despite of his good opportunity of learning he had some bad company too, who engaged him to fantasies like porn, hanging out with alcohols, video games etc. But his bad side was well covered up with his knowledge,  skills, confidence he had. And he has capacity to accompany all categories of people ranging from knowledgeable,  average to time wasters. Beauty was he can manage every one with ease.
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Innate talent and healthy environment builds a person with courage confidence and drive to try novel things.
Gradually my bonding with him is healthy and we share a honest conversation regarding anything. Even he took me into some fantasies too and we enjoyed each other company. While BD was busy in searching of love it gives a good time for Sid and me to grow as a good friend. BD was there as I have similar healthy bond with him too but that's was a problem with Sid.
 He is emotional.and get attached to everything everyone. He found relations with our batchmates like someone was like his mother, father, enemy etc. I was recognized as a friend, surprisingly even starting a college life with BD, Sid recons him as a enemy. Not because he was opposite to his likes and dislikes but because of me having same bond with both.
I was conservative and Sid wants me to be more enthusiastic and confident. He tries to change little things in me on cost of being with him solely. That's not possible, but he still continues to do better for me. He took lot of stress if I got failed in unit test, or unable to submit assignment on time or teacher scolds me on anything. He is trying to reduce those mistakes of mine. I try to do same for him, help wherever needed. He is a good human by heart, but too emotional and can't accept that a person has other friends too.
Acceptance is a key in every situation. Once you accept things then only you can find solutions of a problem, joy out of situation and competency in competition 
Eventually everything is going smooth. One day, his stress came out in the form of seizures infront of entire batchmates and all were supportive to him even BD too. We came to know he has serious epilepsy issues and me and BD try to take care of his bursting out. His parents wasn't worried at all with our presence. He owned his scooter and showed too much love for me. He travels to my home to.pick me up for college and drops at home too. 
You may think he has pure heart and love for every single individual and to be his friend was fortunate.
His mother seems relaxed with our company and invited all guys to his home. We all had a close look on Sid's life and he was always engaged in emotional bonding and get fooled by many. That's why he hated BD because he had good bond with me too, his experience that many friends left him had unusual fear of loosing me or others too. He was ready to do anything for his friends and with fear of loosing friends many people took advantage of him. Due to that disease, he has issues temporarily with behaviour too but he compensate as soon as he realizes. 
After too many years of being in profession where I could understand mental health too, I realised he is a good soul that time and had selfless approach towards commitment of every single relationship he had in his life whether with me or his parents or other friends even with BD. He had conflicts with everyone but never wanting anything wrong with any person in his circle.

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We both travel together and spend lot of time in studies and other things too while BD found someone in love. His illness increases with we all got failed in 1st professional year of college. No.doubt he is a good learner but sometimes acceptance is more important than caliber. 80% were failed even me too, it took time to recover but need to accept. Anyways,  his stress came out again in the form of seizure but this time on road while riding a bike alone and he met an accident. Fortunately he is not injured much, but his bike was severely damaged so that he is unable to ride it again. 
Sometimes God gives signal to stop at a moment but we are unable to understand and continue to do same things may be we may become egoistic.
We all friends try to explain him and he need to come out of that. We are expecting him to do.so and he was doing. He also tried to get back into normal, watching movies roaming with friends and study hard. He is trying to rule situation around him, and in support an movie released of his intrest featuring great actor of hindi cinema Amitabh Bachhan and look at the fortune Sid lost his life in the theater while watching movie he had an seizure again and this time he was with his bad company.
We all knew in starting we will finish on high end but he won the hearts and we had degrees.
Such a serious loss to our entire friend circle and unfortunately neither me or BD was able to attend his last rituals due to unavoidable circumstances.  Well, Sid was a great friend and fighter. He stood up manier times but can't rid out of stress.
Sometimes a small thing may influence you and your life at larger extend and at that point you can't return. 


An....ant

Wednesday, May 12, 2021

The truth: Hindu religion in pandemic

In the era, where you wont be able to go outside and enjoy delicacies, plan a amazing trip or chilling with friends. Situation of a social animal is confined to cement concrete walls earlier known as home. Es, it is still a home , have family loved ones giggles sorrows etc but in actual its moreover a shelter where we are forced to live. You have work but actually you dont have.
It's like an important aspect of human has been taken off that is being social. If anyone could walk outside, they are either in need or in service. People are afraid of 1) reduced or low or minimal income 2) loosing job and then comes 3) the actual cause "novel corona virus". 
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In real, no one in.the world was prepared for such a massive disaster. Everyone is managing. Management differs from country to country, resources available and population. Comparision is obvious but it's not appreciated at such. What are the solutions we have? Till what time we are able to fight? Virus hurts more or hunger??  Well, fortunately I have gone through a phrase written in ancient hindu religion,  sheemad bhagwad geeta... states about "kalyug". Kalyug is where people are dying like an animal on road and no one will there to perform finalnal rituals. Everywhere you witness lots of deaths and people of afraid of going close even with family members. Everyone is trying to arrange food and money for being able to survive. 
Well... that's what happening right now. Is hindu religion is powerful enough? Question arises.... the answer is YES it is... it's a oldest religion which obeys nature's rules and stay close to nature. It doesn't follow modern ecosystem which means the bigger animal eat smaller ones. It is actually system of floating animals lives in deep oceans. And we stupid humans try to copy on earth. 
So, evidence or science is useless according to hindu religion??? NO intact many scientific theories are well proved way back in ancient hindu religion like aeroplane was invented in 20th century but Ravan was used to have pushpak vimaan and evidence in Ramayan. Several such evidences are available in different ved's available for evidence. The beauty of hindu religion is its have own evidences,  inventions and it never force a person to be rigid. 
Infact, in pandemic modern science reserches also proves that following nature and natural substances like fruits , vegetables and natural sources of food you will be more healthy and able to fight with covid. 
Still unable to believe? Try n read shreemad bhagwad geeta,  ramayan,  ved  etc and is available in multiple languages.  Try atleast one and think.... 

An...ant

Saturday, March 20, 2021

The tiffin box

Everyone in course of life, took a tiffin box at school or office or work place or at picnic. Every tiffin box is important and jas it's own story. Some mixed up with love and care of mother some with affection of wife and few tiffin made a day joyful.
Well eating is necessary for living and the bitter truth is one who earn those bread use to have pre cooked food kept in tiffin may be for 4 or more hours to keep energy level high for working. It's hard to digest but most part of world "the tiffin box" has it's own importance and if you focus closely that tiffin doesn't justify just a person but entire family.
When I was a kid, starting educational journey by being an play school student I got my first introduction to the tiffin box. A nice colorful box indulged with a water bottle was just enough to fascinate me. Actually that time neither me nor anyone who at that age able to understand what tiffin actually is? We all go for box but important is the food kept inside. My mother use to give variety of food which were tasty for me and I enjoyed with my friends and teasing them that food is tasty because mom kept in this beautiful box and vica versa when someone else has tasty food. That time tasty food defined as the food we like not with the fact what actual taste is.
As we grown up, we could understand actually food matters not the box. And the taste came in food is just because love care affection towards us by whom food was cooked that is by mother father sister brother wife or anyone else. That depends on how strong the bond with that person. Obviously mother's love is unmatched but apart from that every one matters because compiling food before you leave for work/school requires lot of effort and maintaining that affection is even more valuable than ingredients.
Ingredients are just available for preparing food but the emotions behind cooking is what the flavor we taste. We never understand before pointing out salt is missing in food but the effort and mess behind that is never understood. Think before you say.  Salute to all Annapurna (goddess of food ; may be abbreviatedto one who cook food with selfless attitude). 


An....ant

Sunday, February 7, 2021

Partnership

Partnership is beautiful relation that may be any context whether on cricket or in life. Everyone needs a partner by virtue of it they can think in different ways to accomplish what they want example if 1 partner runs a company and facing losses the other may think out for reducing losses and resulting into a profit.
We humans have very bad tendencies to see profit out of everything and actually is demolishing emotions relations and labelled as "practical". In a life we have to be practical that's I agreed but we are social animals and their is lot of scope of emotional factors which take thru a good track of life.
The partner may be friend, or parents or brother or sister etc. It is not necessary partner should be husband or wife. But most of us has partner in form of husband or wife. Thru the course of life we need to build small partnerships at various stages of life like while playing in kindergarten any friend may be a partner while playing at home either of siblings are. As we grow up or setup any buisness or get a job that's also a partnership between business partners or coordinators of work place. 
Beauty of partnership is when one feel low other motivate and brings towards a healthier relationship. Example if a husband get sick wife is to take care of him whole day and night despite of her own sleep. Or when one partner got a leave the other one take over and its continued throughout life. 
It is also important to know partnership are broken but the other partnership develops and continued. Its always a group where we human lives. Important is to be in partnership and be a good partner.

An...ant

Monday, February 1, 2021

The perception: how you drive your life?

Who knows,  what you see is really a what is meant? Or it may what somebody else wants to show?
Millions of hidden truth inside the universe and so in the personality of a human. We can just assume but exactly what we see is a self perception or someone want you to see in that manner. 
Life gives you many chances or signals or choices or question to choose wisely. What we choose is not necessarily what we like or perceive or assuming. Sometimes the way we want to see is rigid concrete and we don't even try to understand the exact point or situation. To justify it, we may find reasons to Belief and made decisions or.simply we prove is right like someone's 6 is yours 9 and absolutely correct that you saw a 9 and we don't even try to understand 6 at all.
What if we put ourselves into someone else shoes and try to discuss different views and understand each other. Its ok to discuss not to argue and absolutely fine not to walk away without talking. Yes there are differences yet you have a choice to choose which path you perceive as a road of your journey ultimately reaching to destination.
Some people can explain what they exactly mean like an short commercial advertisement on television of a bathing bar. We all know that bathing bar doesn't makes you fair still we buy that product by the way product was explained or presented in advertisement. Those few seconds bang on your decision making. In this era most people are fooled by these kinds of banging that may be your soap or may be choosing restaurant or something else. Point is still there are few peoples who try to understand or make decisions based on their own experiences and they definitely deny advertising things. It's fair what they chose is rare but justified by their need, illustrations and most importantly thru experience.
On other hand, we have peoples who are less expressive and mostly they are misunderstood. They want to say something but couldn't go thru a good explanation and ended up with proving their worth. Let me tell you, those are innocent but by the time goes their talent turned up into negative direction. Infact their advertising ideas are also dump.
Last but not least people who have followers like an actor or priest or leader. Here there is no matter of choosing. These followers are so dumb that they don't even use their brains and cant see what's wrong and what's not. They perceive as it is what perception their leader has. These are so much convinced in such a way that they can do anything as their leader says. 
What kind of person you are? Do you try to understand someone's point? Yes there are emotional fools but they are not using someone else's emotions for their personal benefits.

If you understand the message I gave, please write in comment box.

An....ant

Saturday, January 30, 2021

The "U" turn of life

Life..... always teach you when you are in your comfort zone. Everything goes so smooth you feel like " newton's law of inertia: remain in the state in which you are" and actually you are enjoying it. There is no hurry no demands just executing ongoing simple plans into daily routines. At the moment you feels like "not expecting more now" but God has his own plans. Whenever you reach at that point God says "ye jeena bh koi jeena hai??? (Is this lifestyle is actually a lifestyle???) And the life drama begins.
If you ask a man who is single, he sets his plans for a year like a road trip or adventures or academic etc etc and suddenly he stucked with a girl and plans ended into engagement or marriage. If you ask a job holder person who is reasonably satisfied with his work institute or job and suddenly pandemic happens and he lost his job. If someone plans a buisness and think of earning too much in pandemic and government declares vaccine is invented and your plans remains a plan. Actually these are signals or may be there is something which wants best out of you keeping on toes and always prepared. At the same time we must prepared for the worst assuming that anything can happen in our life. 
The fact is we dont know the future and we tries to control it by our actions assuming that "the law of inertia" will provide us enough to live but we forget that the same Mr newton said "every action has equal and opposite reaction " means we remain committed for the ongoing situation we may not come out of our comfort zone and hence ended up with sacrificing our growth. Growth in terms of personal life of that engaged person or business opportunity or sense of entrepreneurship after loosing job or searching for novel ideas for society after vaccination. It let you think scratch your head and think something different so that you can develop a good equal and opposite reaction. Remember once you reach that point, the cycle goes on.... its life and life is all about how you deal how you cope up and what you believe..... 
Stay hopeful and optimistic try hard everything happens for.some.cause ... you have to identify and live life at full enjoy....

An....ant

Monday, January 4, 2021

The nature'a colour

Well a hard time of lockdown is going to finish. Gradually life improves. The summer went on lockdown hence no one actually felt that heat as they experienced in previous years! Summer has it's own vibration, it is the season of "sanitizer". Its not really the covid sanatizer but actually it's natural sunheat which provide enough heat to survive for a creature.  Its look like a fire heat but if you see its actually origin of new buds.
Sun is symbol of life and energy, it always promote positivity. As we woke up, sun reminds us new beginning of the day. Hence summer is pre builder of new buds that starts life in rains. India, a colorful country and beauty is its typical timings of seasons. Our calendar year starts in winter, progresses to summer then changed to rain and again winter. Cycle goes on. But Indian climate is well defined by Hindu culture  that is bahar , basant, patjhad, sawant. Bahar means full on color,  fruits vegetables are grown well to consume, enjoying all healthy foods and body accomodate its digestion process at ease. Basant(autumn in western) is breezy and colorful pleasant climate. Patjhad is what related to summer or pre buds. Sawant is rain. 
So, cycle has it's own meaning. I am pleased to witness colors is summer. Yes colors in summer which actually painted by our own mother nature. Thanks to lockdown that preserve many natural things intact during summers ofcourse level of pollution was also low.