I am not going to tell story of 3 musketeers or 3 idiots or any movie story. This was actually a personal experience of mine and is related to 3 persons. Well, I am not going to focus on me but on some one else.
Myself has ended school board exams relatively at high note. So as an every individual does I was searching for a college by which I can continue my studies and turned into a career. So I got admission in a professional course. September 5th, on auspicious day "teacher's day" I was about to start my new journey. A fearful, alone and unknown to crowd, i was waiting for bus at a place where lots of other students (all having day one , in different speciality but in same college). I took that bus with others and reached to orientation hall at college.
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Anyone from a middle class background has dream of a successful career and its first step is to get admission in professional stream is like larger than a life.
On other hand, the other two characters (including the main) belongs to same region of a city. Somehow they had an interaction and fortunately they are on the same boat, reached college (not venue) by scooter. The scooter was a famous scooter made by bajaj company and was pretty old, belongs to second lead of the story (I am the 3rd). So in search of orientation hall, they have landed to the most desirable area for boys unknowingly and that was the girls hostel. Watchman was in loo and they stepped into girls hostel. Before they could ask for orientation hall, they understood this is some wrong building we entered. It's better to run away rather than thrown out by warden or some officer. The beauty of our college was there are so many similar buildings that any one can be confused but these two were too much dumb that couldn't see main building infront and went to a building that was behind main building.
Some silly things brings lots of joy in the life and is remembered throughout life.
Since, I have started scary, lonely day at first few hours, they had already a funny friendship start that still in our mind. Eventually, they found orientation hall where everyone was giving basic introduction, background and course in which we took admission. Orientation was conducted by the dean and co and we almost 200 peoples were listening to everyone's introduction and try to find out our batchmates from same course. Here I saw those two one by one and who knows we were going to be friends.
Speaking infront of too much people need courage and was not practiced in schools at that time.
A chubby, short heighted boy from a south Indian background with lots of confidence to speak up and courage to face such audience... that boy was Sid. Coming from higher middle class background and reasonable good school of city with above average scoring in 12th standard he started his journey with us. His companion was resident at similar area and owned that scooter was BD. He was an experience companion as he was in some other college for a while and little bit aware of college situation. So as orientation finished, we found each other in same batch and met for the very first time during lunch. Well others too were part of our batch but fun begins with we 3 Sid, BD and Me.
We all knew we will have a good company for sure.
Fortunately we became friends. As usual friends do, we attend lectures , eat lunch and travel together by public transport. We shared a good bonding, as time progresses we are found to roam around in and out of campus. Sid was bit emotional and was a only child. Me and BD has siblings and knows how to be in same page as we are grown up in that environment plus Sid was relatively sound as far as financial status of our families. With different cultural, financial and family backgrounds our friendship gradually grows.
Sid has his own ways to enjoy and was more forward then us, having good general knowledge having access of computer internet freely. Despite of his good opportunity of learning he had some bad company too, who engaged him to fantasies like porn, hanging out with alcohols, video games etc. But his bad side was well covered up with his knowledge, skills, confidence he had. And he has capacity to accompany all categories of people ranging from knowledgeable, average to time wasters. Beauty was he can manage every one with ease.
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Innate talent and healthy environment builds a person with courage confidence and drive to try novel things.
Gradually my bonding with him is healthy and we share a honest conversation regarding anything. Even he took me into some fantasies too and we enjoyed each other company. While BD was busy in searching of love it gives a good time for Sid and me to grow as a good friend. BD was there as I have similar healthy bond with him too but that's was a problem with Sid.
He is emotional.and get attached to everything everyone. He found relations with our batchmates like someone was like his mother, father, enemy etc. I was recognized as a friend, surprisingly even starting a college life with BD, Sid recons him as a enemy. Not because he was opposite to his likes and dislikes but because of me having same bond with both.
I was conservative and Sid wants me to be more enthusiastic and confident. He tries to change little things in me on cost of being with him solely. That's not possible, but he still continues to do better for me. He took lot of stress if I got failed in unit test, or unable to submit assignment on time or teacher scolds me on anything. He is trying to reduce those mistakes of mine. I try to do same for him, help wherever needed. He is a good human by heart, but too emotional and can't accept that a person has other friends too.
Acceptance is a key in every situation. Once you accept things then only you can find solutions of a problem, joy out of situation and competency in competition
Eventually everything is going smooth. One day, his stress came out in the form of seizures infront of entire batchmates and all were supportive to him even BD too. We came to know he has serious epilepsy issues and me and BD try to take care of his bursting out. His parents wasn't worried at all with our presence. He owned his scooter and showed too much love for me. He travels to my home to.pick me up for college and drops at home too.
You may think he has pure heart and love for every single individual and to be his friend was fortunate.
His mother seems relaxed with our company and invited all guys to his home. We all had a close look on Sid's life and he was always engaged in emotional bonding and get fooled by many. That's why he hated BD because he had good bond with me too, his experience that many friends left him had unusual fear of loosing me or others too. He was ready to do anything for his friends and with fear of loosing friends many people took advantage of him. Due to that disease, he has issues temporarily with behaviour too but he compensate as soon as he realizes.
After too many years of being in profession where I could understand mental health too, I realised he is a good soul that time and had selfless approach towards commitment of every single relationship he had in his life whether with me or his parents or other friends even with BD. He had conflicts with everyone but never wanting anything wrong with any person in his circle.
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We both travel together and spend lot of time in studies and other things too while BD found someone in love. His illness increases with we all got failed in 1st professional year of college. No.doubt he is a good learner but sometimes acceptance is more important than caliber. 80% were failed even me too, it took time to recover but need to accept. Anyways, his stress came out again in the form of seizure but this time on road while riding a bike alone and he met an accident. Fortunately he is not injured much, but his bike was severely damaged so that he is unable to ride it again.
Sometimes God gives signal to stop at a moment but we are unable to understand and continue to do same things may be we may become egoistic.
We all friends try to explain him and he need to come out of that. We are expecting him to do.so and he was doing. He also tried to get back into normal, watching movies roaming with friends and study hard. He is trying to rule situation around him, and in support an movie released of his intrest featuring great actor of hindi cinema Amitabh Bachhan and look at the fortune Sid lost his life in the theater while watching movie he had an seizure again and this time he was with his bad company.
We all knew in starting we will finish on high end but he won the hearts and we had degrees.
Such a serious loss to our entire friend circle and unfortunately neither me or BD was able to attend his last rituals due to unavoidable circumstances. Well, Sid was a great friend and fighter. He stood up manier times but can't rid out of stress.
Sometimes a small thing may influence you and your life at larger extend and at that point you can't return.
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